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What are some ways that greek people discipline their children?

Can somebody please tell ways that greek people discipline their children in their culture? I have been trying to find information on the internet, but can't find anything. If you know a website I can go to, could you please tell me? Or if you know any information as well.

It's for a class exercise.
I want actual answers.

It depends…There was a new study performed by the Institute of Children's Health in Greece that showed that 65% of parents admitted to have used physical abuse to their children between the ages 6-12.It's very sad listening that but I fear that the past generation of parents (parents who are now 50+) believed that children need to be physical abused cause no talking could help as much as a physical punishment would.Now days, the younger parents have become more open minded and try other methods such as rewarding the kid for it's nice behavior, try to talk to the child about his feelings and try to have a good communication with their children.Unfortunately there are still many parents who believe that children need to be physically,emotionally and psychologically abused in order to have respect and fear for the older ones.It makes me mad cause no parent should treat it's child this way, and it's their incapacity of raising healthy citizens and their ego that makes them do such things. Well I hope/think that the new generation of parents is much more aware of how to correctly "discipline" their children.There is no need for any kind of abuse.

Know any creative discipline techniques for grade schoolers?

Let's face it, time-out doesn 't always work.
Got any fresh ideas for stubborn, smart, grade-schoolers that actually work? Aside from duck taping her mouth shut, I'm plum out of ideas (yes, I'm kidding, but it's tempting, isn't it).

OMG it is very tempting some days. I have a 9 yr old in 3rd grade and the only thing that works is taking away her privilages, no tv no playing outside (although i find this actually punishes her dad and I instead) I also make her write sentences explaining what she is in trouble for and how she can fix it. This works amazingly well with her becuz i put it up on the fridge for a few days and everytime i start getting that adorable little attitude i refer her to what she has written asking her if she wants to rewrite it. Which she never does. Time out is a joke but standing in the corner reciting her spelling words for the week or her times tables outloud works and she is studying at the same time. I also when she gets pretty much at my breaking point inform her that I NEED A TIME OUT and go in my room and forbid her from bothering me ( i get 30 mins in time out cuz im 30) it is amazing ho wmuch better you can approach a situation when you cool off like that. When i come out of my time out i ask her if she knows why i went to time out. Most of the time she does, when she doesn't i tell her the reason (example being she has been being very rude all day or talking back etc).
PS I do not help eher with the spelling on the writing becuz it is in her words. I dont care if it is spelled right as long as she knows what it says. As someone else stated I do not reward her daily for good behavior I do however have a point system. For example 50=ice cream treat. But she earns points vs allowance and she can loose them for bad behavior the only way she can earn them is by doing her daily chores.. she gets 5 pts a day for taking out the trash each chore has a point value. 1 point a day for keeping up with her room. Just remembered this and thought i would add it.

what are your opinions on child discipline? Is the using a belt child abuse?

I and a friend had a discussion about child discipline today. i'm against it and consider it child abuse no matter the age. his view point is from age 5 or so if nothing else works then you should discipline them by using the belt on them. What do you think?
no i'm not against discipline, just using an object to hit your child

In my opinion, using violence against your child is not only cruel, but the mark of an incredibly lazy parent. It is a parents job to teach their children what to do in certain circumstances, not scare or hurt them into knowing what NOT to do.

I can never understand why someone would want their child to be scared of them, or hurt because of them.

Discipline is a MUST, but physical violence is not.

Boot Camp Training Tips: Not a Military School for Boys

There is a fundamental rule when joining the boot camp. Shut Up and Listen. In other words do not speak unless your instructor speaks to you. Your drill instructor will do anything to test your mental discipline. Swear on you or your family and attacking your integrity. Most recruits do not understand that this is actually a trap that the drill instructor sets. Do not fall into it. Do not send your instructor to hell.

The following smart tips will help stay in a good shape when joining the boot camp and eventually pass.

Stay Focused
Remember in the boot camp it’s not all about physical. Actually it’s 10% physical and 90% mental. Do not give in to the temptation to give up. There are no options apart from holding on. Take it to the limits. There are things during boot camp training that you want to do and things that you have to do. Be disciplined and take care of what you have to do first. I know it sounds hard but that’s boot camp training.

Remember Who Makes The Rules
In your case as a new recruit, your drill instructor makes the rules. Do not try to argue with your instructor. Even if you are right you cannot and will not win. Despite what you’ve heard from others about boot camp training, never assume you know anything about it. Boot camp training is somewhat different for each individual and no matter what you think you know, you don’t.

All For One And One For All
The drill instructor will do his/her best to make all of you recruits think and act as a team. Leave your ego outside the boot camp. Sometimes you will have to sacrifice your egoism in order to help the team accomplish a task or a mission. And that’s what the army is all about. The “WE” is more important than the “I”. If you see some of your buddies struggling, motivate them and cheer them up. If you help them they will probably do the same for you when the time comes.

Do Not Volunteer
You have to be careful when volunteering for certain tasks. You may be rewarded but you will find yourself responsible not only for your performance but for the performance of others next to you. There’s no logic in the boot camp. Training is hard and some times you may think that volunteering for a task might help you. It could help, by it could damage your ego and demoralize you as well. Be careful what you wish for. It’s different if you are picked for a task. Then it would be a great idea to resist temptation to decline.

There Is A Purpose For Everything
And indeed that is true. There is a purpose for everything happening during boot camp training. Even if a task seems completely stupid or useless be sure that this is not the case. Don’t get confused. Do not try to find answers for everything that happens in the boot camp. You need to have a high rank to know the purpose for the things that happen during your training. Remember to stay focused all the time. You are not there to answer questions but to pass the boot camp training.

Maria Markella
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