I’m raising some little kids right now they’re a bit spoiled..then again I’m young too.
Well there’s no real hard and fast rules. I would say the most important thing is to be consistant. If you don’t let them do something one time, don’t let them do it ever! Also, don’t make empty threats. Give them one or two warnings depending on their ages and follow through with a punishment. Be fair, and make sure they know the rules and what’s expected of them. Try to be calm when you deal with wrong behaviour, and always tell them what you do want them to do, not just what you don’t want. Give them lots of praise and encouragement when you see them doing the right thing, and never give in to tears or tantrums! Punishments are really up to you, some people use time-outs, grounding, loss of privelages, etc. Just make sure the punishment fits the crime, and that the kids now what the consequences will be if they misbehave. I won’t advise you for or against spanking, that’s a very personal decision for parents (I’m not sure if they’re your children, or you’re looking after someone else’s?), that is your own judgement call. Good luck, I hope that helps!
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Does Martial Arts really teach discipline and a good fighting technique for a 10 and 8 year old?
Oct 31
My 2 boys are getting picked on my 8 year old stands up for his self but my 10 year old wont….My boyfreind told me to put them in Martial Arts but i really dont know if this will be the right way…Any advise….
The right school will definitely teach discipline and help break that ice on being afraid to stand up for them selves.
The RIGHT school though will not make aggressive attackers out of them though. They must know when it is o.k. and not o.k. to defend themselves. A time and place for everything.
So yes Martial arts would highly help them with discipline and the techniques will be useful against others their age but not so well against adults so you know until they are older. MOST have their kids join for discipline.
most schools teach you to fight so you do not have to fight and hopefully that is what you can find, one that gives you the discipline to give them the not only support but the self confidence you say the 10 year old is lacking.
It is the same reason I joined MA when i was almost 6 because of similar problems, now 31 years later i am a teacher and now help other kids as I was once.
Their are also other ways to if you do not like the martial arts schools in your area, their is always boxing, wrestling, the most important thing is make sure you feel safe with your kids there and you can tell by sitting in and watching a class or so and see how the other kids are and the teacher.
good luck
I would really like to know what you think about this topic. In my culture which is Hmong. Its believed that childrens remember and leanr faster by hitting them. Is this true? Because I’m kinda skeptical about this.
huh?
you’re wrong -_-’
I’m hmong and i never heard such thing.
Wella i have, but then…
you word it all wrong
You only get a spanking depending on if your parents are strict or not and if they believe a spanking is bad or good.
It’s not a hmong thing…
every culture does it*
it just depends what the parents chooses to do…
spank them or not*
….I’m only 19, but then…
I should be able to know the reason why parents do what they do
they only do it because they think it’s going to get your attention and make you work harder…
which I found completely stupid because most people these days would just get piss if that happens -_-’
the spanking part is wrong…
my parents don’t do it*
they use to back when i was a kid, but that’s like years ago back when i was 7 or something…
what hmong parents lack in understanding is the fact that people learn better at a very young age so you have to encourage them not spank them or yell at them…
it will just cause them to lose patience, hope and so forth…
most hmong parents usually don’t realize, but then they aren’t giving much hope into what their sons and daughters do however i do understand that they are worried
you should listen to your parents, however at the same time, you should learn to realize yourself what’s really wrong or not and don’t lie to yourself about it either
just remember to ask yourself…………….
If i was a parent, what would i want for you child?
you have to keep in mind that…
Whoever you are…
others are humans too, so what you do would of course conflict with what others do
you just have to know your manners and so forth…
lol, iono about you and most of the hmong guys out there, but then I know my manners and how to speak to an elder
it’s easy*
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