Discipline

Self Discipline

Posts Tagged Child

Parenting by The Book: Biblical Wisdom for Raising Your Child

Jul 17

Posted by admin in Parenting | 5 Comments

  • ISBN13: 9781416544845
  • Condition: New
  • Notes: BUY WITH CONFIDENCE, Over one million books sold! 98% Positive feedback. Compare our books, prices and service to the competition. 100% Satisfaction Guaranteed

Product Description
Picture respectful, responsible, obedient children who entertain themselves without television or video games, do their own homework, and have impeccable manners. A pie-in-the-sky fantasy? Not so, says family psychologist and bestselling author John Rosemond. Any parent who so desires can grow children who fit that description — happy, emotionally healthy children who honor their parents and their families with good behavior and do their best in school.In the 1960s… More >>

Parenting by The Book: Biblical Wisdom for Raising Your Child

Tags: , , , , ,

Child MED – Corporal Punishment Big Bruizer CHILD Costume

Jul 2

Posted by admin in Child Discipline | No Comments

  • Costume includes a zip-up camo shirt, an oversized character mask with eye cut-outs, a bandalier with attached grenade halves, and an inflatable harness to beef-up your chest and shoulders. The vinyl character mask features great texture and wrinkle detailing. The large nostril opening provide easy breathing and has large
  • The large nostril opening provide easy breathing and has large eye holes to provide an unobstructed view
  • Child Sizes: SM (4-6, 3-4 yrs), MED (8-10, 5 -7 yrs)
  • Mftr. has changed sizing as above primarily because many people still think “size” should match “age” as when univ. sizing began years ago, yet children are “grown bigger” today – AND costumes tend a bit small. So purchase by Size 1st if you know it, then age if not (and child within “age avg. size”). And always purchase “bigger” when in doubt.
  • Shipping: We warehouse our product but do have to wait for your pymt to process & be released. Typically it’s 1-2 bus. days avail. (Usually 1 unless there are billing questions) PLUS the shipping you choose. Please remember: Availability + Transit Time = Total Business Days to Anticipate Arrival

Product Description
Big Bruizer Captain Punishment Child Costume includes a zip-up camo shirt, an oversized character mask with eye cut-outs, a bandalier with attached grenade halves, and an inflatable harness for chest and shoulders. The vinyl character mask features great texture and wrinkle detailing. The large nostril opening provide easy breathing and has large eye holes to provide an unobstructed view… More >>

Child MED – Corporal Punishment Big Bruizer CHILD Costume

Tags: , , , ,

Is it appropriate to spank a child under 3?

May 30

Posted by admin in Child Discipline | 18 Comments

For parents– is it appropriate? I work with children and every now and then I get parents who tell me that it’s okay to spank their 1 year old because they do it at home. My work’s policy prohibits spanking, but we do discipline appropriately for their age. For instance, I think it’s more appropriate to spank a child at age 3 than 18 months. But it seems a lot of parents believe spanking is appropriate at 18 months, even though that seems awfully young.

The argument is that children that young do understand and know what they are doing, hence they need a punishment to fit it. Now, I’m not a parent but I know a lot about child development and it doesn’t seem to fit. Children do a lot of things out of a strong desire for curiosity and also test boundaries. So spanking a child who is 18 months because they wanted to see what would happen after they tipped a can over seems inappropriate.

What do parents think? What do you do?
I don’t want this to be a “spanking is bad” question, but whether it’s appropriate for certain ages. It’s not for me to decide whether or not spanking is good or not good.

Also, I know a lot of parents who spank their 1 and 2 year olds because the parents are convinced that their children DO understand what they are doing because their child will do something inappropriate and then look at their parents for their reactions. Does that mean the child is simply looking to see if they are overstepping a boundary, or is the child waiting on their parent’s reactions as to whether or not they should continue with the behavior? I don’t think it makes a child “bad”.

Tags: , , ,

What are the best reasons to spank a child 13 years of age or younger?

Apr 30

Posted by admin in Child Discipline | 18 Comments

What are the best reasons to spank a child 13 years of age or younger?

How old should a child be before trying to spank them?

What are some techniques to get your child to do the right things without resorting to so much spanking?

How might it be possible to have a child do all the right things without the need for any spanking?
Seems it is best to not punish a child at all if the child is able to do all the right things without punishment. Ideally, all the right things would be that the child remain respectful to superiors and the elder members of the family. Ideally, the child would always clean up after himself even more than the mess he might have left. Ideally, the child would always do all their homework and then some.

I am inclined to believe that there are different types of punishment before we get down to actual spanking. For instance, no candy, no going to the movies, and we could go on down the line from the less severe to the more severe.

Parents may not know how to recognize what they can convince there child to do. Just the threat of getting spanked was enough to make me run and hide.
Perhaps there is some way to convince the child that punishment actually exists for them if they are bad enough. If they see a child being spanked on TV then they might realize that it could happen to them if they get too much out of line. But, then just show them the stick and hopefully you will never have to use it.

Of course, we have to be very careful if actually spanking a child. You do not want to injure your child. A little stink on the hand or below the butt might be enough if it actually becomes necessary to spank a child.
When a child is five years or less, they are normally much easier to handle. It shouldn’t take any spanking to get them to do the right thing. It is at that age that it is easiest to physically harm your child due to spanking. Between the ages of five and thirteen the child might be more the spanking age if that actually becomes necessary. But, the older the child the more possibility the child will not take the spanking seriously.

We should always attempt to teach and guide the child with our personal example. And, of course, we should always treat our child with love and respect.

Read Bhagavad Gita As It Is

http://www.asitis.com

http://www.vedabase.net/

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/dharma-counseling

Higher Taste: Online Vegetarian Cookbook!

http://www.webcom.com/ara/col/books/VEG/ht/

Tags: , , , , ,

Powered by Yahoo! Answers