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that they do not have room to make mistakes and learn self discipline.

Obviously neither is good or even acceptable, but which do you think would cause more long term harm.
Good point I was thinking that a super strict upbringing would cause a child to follow others blindly I didn’t consider the rebellion aspect.

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I am a preschool teacher with a class of 12 4 and 5 year-olds. One of my students, a girl, has been exhibiting very aggressive behaviors (kicking, hitting, screaming) towards teachers and other students when she does not get her way. We have tried several dfferent methods (rewards for good behavior, etc.) to subdue this behavior and replace it with more positive ones, but all have backfired. My frustration level with this child is getting to the breaking point, and it is affecting the entire class. Any ideas? (The parents are aware of the behavior and also see it at home.)

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I was spanked as a child but it seems that society has moved from traditional spanking. My child doesn’t respond to “time out” or grounding. I want to spank but my wife left a bruise from a wooden spoon spanking and we decided it might not be the best idea. Please help!

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My 3 and 1 year old always get out of hand when we go out. Is there a less obvious way to spank them while in public. I’ve tried pinching their hands but they yell really loud and it draws attention. They don’t listen to words so physical punishment is a MUST.
The cops have never been called I just worry about that happening.

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For parents– is it appropriate? I work with children and every now and then I get parents who tell me that it’s okay to spank their 1 year old because they do it at home. My work’s policy prohibits spanking, but we do discipline appropriately for their age. For instance, I think it’s more appropriate to spank a child at age 3 than 18 months. But it seems a lot of parents believe spanking is appropriate at 18 months, even though that seems awfully young.

The argument is that children that young do understand and know what they are doing, hence they need a punishment to fit it. Now, I’m not a parent but I know a lot about child development and it doesn’t seem to fit. Children do a lot of things out of a strong desire for curiosity and also test boundaries. So spanking a child who is 18 months because they wanted to see what would happen after they tipped a can over seems inappropriate.

What do parents think? What do you do?
I don’t want this to be a “spanking is bad” question, but whether it’s appropriate for certain ages. It’s not for me to decide whether or not spanking is good or not good.

Also, I know a lot of parents who spank their 1 and 2 year olds because the parents are convinced that their children DO understand what they are doing because their child will do something inappropriate and then look at their parents for their reactions. Does that mean the child is simply looking to see if they are overstepping a boundary, or is the child waiting on their parent’s reactions as to whether or not they should continue with the behavior? I don’t think it makes a child “bad”.

What are the best reasons to spank a child 13 years of age or younger?

How old should a child be before trying to spank them?

What are some techniques to get your child to do the right things without resorting to so much spanking?

How might it be possible to have a child do all the right things without the need for any spanking?
Seems it is best to not punish a child at all if the child is able to do all the right things without punishment. Ideally, all the right things would be that the child remain respectful to superiors and the elder members of the family. Ideally, the child would always clean up after himself even more than the mess he might have left. Ideally, the child would always do all their homework and then some.

I am inclined to believe that there are different types of punishment before we get down to actual spanking. For instance, no candy, no going to the movies, and we could go on down the line from the less severe to the more severe.

Parents may not know how to recognize what they can convince there child to do. Just the threat of getting spanked was enough to make me run and hide.
Perhaps there is some way to convince the child that punishment actually exists for them if they are bad enough. If they see a child being spanked on TV then they might realize that it could happen to them if they get too much out of line. But, then just show them the stick and hopefully you will never have to use it.

Of course, we have to be very careful if actually spanking a child. You do not want to injure your child. A little stink on the hand or below the butt might be enough if it actually becomes necessary to spank a child.
When a child is five years or less, they are normally much easier to handle. It shouldn’t take any spanking to get them to do the right thing. It is at that age that it is easiest to physically harm your child due to spanking. Between the ages of five and thirteen the child might be more the spanking age if that actually becomes necessary. But, the older the child the more possibility the child will not take the spanking seriously.

We should always attempt to teach and guide the child with our personal example. And, of course, we should always treat our child with love and respect.

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