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Regarding self-discipline, how do I get from “why” to “how”?

I’m a college student, constantly drifting away from my responsibilities. I know why I need to exercise self-discipline. I know exactly what’s at stake, and I’ve been burned more than once by my lack of it. So how do I make the jump between that knowledge and knowing HOW to discipline myself?

In summary:
WHO: Me.
WHAT: Self-discipline.
WHEN: Now.
WHERE: University of Houston.
WHY: So I won’t fail, drop out, lose whatever pride I have left. If possible, keep my scholarship and stay in the Honors College.
HOW: ???
I’ve been told “just DO it” before. The problem is, I don’t know how (if I did, I wouldn’t be asking). It’s like asking a flying person how to fly and getting the answer “by flying.” Is there a way to get there without having to already BE there? (This problem comes up with habit-forming as well – needing to be in the habit to make sure I do it regularly enough to form the habit.) Is the leap something intuitive that isn’t really understood at all? Why doesn’t it work for me?

Maybe I think too much. But I don’t know how to not think, either.

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How does one transition from traditional parenting to attachment parenting with older “just” adopted siblings?

I am looking for a resource for attachment parenting for those of us adopting the older child, when that child or children (siblings) will arrive with significant attachment issues.

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What is the best way to discipline your dog for stealing food from your toddler’s table?

I have him eating at the bar until I can figure out how to make our dog behave. She eats everything I put down for him even his coffee.

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Expelled from College…next steps?

Hi,

I was self-educated at home throughout my entire K-12 years and rose from virtually nothing to attend Bentley University, a fairly prestigious business school. I was a National Merit Scholar and a President’s Scholar. Despite never having been in a classroom environment before, I adapted quickly to the new environment and excelled, earning a 4.0 GPA in every single course my freshman year.

In the fall 2008 semester (my first semester at Bentley), I needed money to pay my bills and unfortunately made an unwise decision to generate this income by writing papers for other students and charging fees. Throughout November and December of that year, I wrote 8 papers and sold them to other students. Though I had never taken the courses that the papers were for, the papers were given good grades. Some papers were short and immaterial, while others represented the cumulative projects for their respective courses.

The paper writing business ended with the school semester and I did not resume my unethical activities once the spring semester began. My actions of the past fall semester were not the least bit on my mind through the beginning months of the year. However, in April, a full 5 months after I stopped writing papers, I received an unexpected e-mail informing me that I had been caught and must report immediately to the Deans. Despite a very hard fought case, the judicial process was not favorable to me and the board expelled me permanently, a decision upheld by the Provost on appeal. The board, however, did not expel any of my clients. Two were suspended for a semester, while the others were given meager sentences of community service.

I was allowed to keep all credits I earned at Bentley, but my official transcript shows “Academic Dismissal.” I enrolled in a local community college this fall and am taking general education courses to build credits. I applied to two other schools as a transfer student in the spring but was denied admission (they both were fairly elite colleges, to be clear). I will continue community college in the spring, but need a four year university to attend after that.

It seems to me that this one mistake negates all my other accomplishments and bars me from the world of higher education permanently. I need to continue my education; I can’t quit college. And I need a strategy to move forward so that I can do that. I am asking in this post for advice on what I should do to overcome this blemish on my record and proceed as quickly as possible. Specific questions that I need answered to are below. Any further advice is much appreciated.

1. What if I completely omitted my year at Bentley in future college applications and applied as if I was a freshman in Community College?
2. Is it possible to do the above without lying on the “Disciplinary History” section of most college applications, including the Common App?
3. What can I do to convince admissions that this was mistake is not indicative of my overall character?

To be clear, I never cheated personally. All of my perfect grades were earned with honor, and I maintaining my 4.0 GPA in Community College. I also have not been inactive outside the classroom. This past summer, I built from scratch and ran my own painting business, generated $100,000 in revenue and was responsible for the entire management of the company. I am continuing growing my business and expect to hire on new managers and grow the company to $600,000 in business the next summer. I was also a prominent member of my college’s political organizations.

I have all the qualities of an ideal candidate, but this one looming obstacle is holding me back. Thank you for your help.

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Parenting Method from Mom Has Fun • Raising Happy Children


Nicole MacKenzie & the Young MacKenzie Kids – an old commercial for Mom Has Fun – the revolutionary parenting method based on Coaching not Control & Discipline without Punishment. Making bringing up kids more fun for everyone! For more information about Nicole’s innovative and effective Parenting System: Mom Has Fun, visit: www.MomHasFun.com Sign up for a FREE Online Parenting Class at www.MomHasFun.com Join our Facebook Community at www.facebook.com

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Classroom management tips from Garrett


VIF staff member Garrett gives high-school VIF teachers some tips on classroom management.

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Corporal punishment for child just recovered from brain tumour


A class 8 student in Bhiwani, recovering from a recent brain tumour surgery, was hit by his teacher on the head when he wasn’t able to stand as punishment. The boy fell unconscious and had to be taken to the hospital. His parents have now lodged a complaint with the police.

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